Love doesn’t have to be about losing yourself for the sake of finding someone else.
Love can be meaningful, mutual, deeply satisfying and empowering.
But you do have to put yourself out there.
You have to put yourself out there.
The real you.
The authentic you.
And that’s really the the hitch, isn’t it?
Love doesn’t have to be about losing yourself for the sake of finding someone else.
Love can be meaningful, mutual, deeply satisfying and empowering.
But you do have to put yourself out there.
You have to put yourself out there.
The real you.
The authentic you.
And that’s really the the hitch, isn’t it?
Love doesn’t have to be about losing yourself for the sake of finding someone else.
Love can be meaningful, mutual, deeply satisfying and empowering.
But you do have to put yourself out there.
You have to put yourself out there.
The real you.
The authentic you.
And that’s really the the hitch, isn’t it?
Love doesn’t have to be about losing yourself for the sake of finding someone else.
Love can be meaningful, mutual, deeply satisfying and empowering.
But you do have to put yourself out there.
You have to put yourself out there.
The real you.
The authentic you.
And that’s really the the hitch, isn’t it?
Attraction Confusion
Here’s the frustrating conundrum most of the women I know will encounter as they try to find meaning and connection in their love relationships.
“Do I show up as who I truly am — which feels good but always seems to repel the object of my attraction?”
“Or do I restyle myself as the person the object of my attraction desires — which feels fake and downright icky?”
Helluva choice, right?
But what if solving the riddle calls for you to reject the idea that those two choices are the only ones available to you?
What if finding love doesn’t have to be about the transactional, surface-level rituals you’ve been taught?
What if you could attract fulfilling relationships that honor what’s meaningful to- and about you, without sacrificing your authenticity?
Uncertainty and Feeling Unsafe
We live in a time of uncertainty, which can feel super unsafe.
If you don’t want to hide under a rock and hope no one looks for you there, the obvious strategy might be to just blend in.
… To become someone everyone around you will approve of.
… Whoever they’ll accept.
Being a human chameleon does have some superficial advantages.
But it requires you to settle for superficial.
And once you’re there, it’s easy to just keep settling. Or compromising your values. Or chasing after relationships that aren’t right for you.
It’s easy to get discouraged and convince yourself that you’re less than. That you’re doomed to remain one of the perpetually unbeloved.
Yet here you are, visiting my website.
Because even though you may feel unsafe — and possibly somewhat desperate — you still want something more.
You Already Hold the Golden Ticket
Back to the riddle of the two choices …
Let’s face it. It’s next to impossible to pick out a person who interests you, try to attract them and actually make a connection stick — with both of you being happy, fulfilled and all the rest.
Centering your intentions and actions around an object of attraction will only trip you up.
But you can pick out the experience you want, then attract it.
Yes, a compatible love partner will be part of that experience. But that’s not where you start.
How many degrees of different is that from what we’ve historically been taught?
Well, that’s where lasting transformation starts here at Love Renegade.
And it has not. a. thing. to do with learning the latest dating hacks or playing hard to get or where to meet the “perfect” partner.
Wanna know more? Grab your favorite cuppa and come on in, Sis.
